ItsAboutLove.org, LDS Family Services' newly redesigned pregnancy counseling and adoption services Web site, was launched in June 2009.

In part, the Web site helps expectant parents consider all options for their unborn child.

"It is about connecting people with what they need," said Valerie Mechling, a birth mother who placed her baby for adoption through LDS Family Services three years ago. "This new Web site really does a good job of that."



LDS Family Services redesigned the site to add more in-depth information and resources, as well as to improve its aesthetic appeal and organization.

The Web site was segmented to reach four key audiences: expectant parents and their families, couples who are hoping to adopt, professionals and church leaders.

The Web site has information on single parenting, marriage, abortion and adoption. It gives information about the pregnancy trimesters, answers frequently asked questions about pregnancy, dispels several myths, and connects people with counselors and birth mothers.

Among its many new features, birth mothers talk about why they chose adoption for their babies. According to Shanna Bake, LDS Family Services program specialist, the 16 video clips of birth mothers telling their stories, along with the responses to questions from actual birthparents, birth grandparents and professionals, may be the best part of the Web site.

Tamra Hyde, who is one of the featured birth mothers, placed her child for adoption in 1996 through LDS Family Services. When she was contemplating adoption, she said she did not know anyone who had placed a child for adoption.

"I think it will be really beneficial for people to see good people make this choice; people who would make good parents even make this choice," she said.

If an adoption plan is made, the Web site also has an internal search engine that allows expectant parents to find a family that fits their desires for their baby. The search capacities on the Web site can help connect expectant parents with more than 800 couples. These couples can make online profiles with a letter to the expectant parents, a photo album of their family and information about themselves.

"The irony about adoption is that from both sides it can start in tragedy, really -- an unplanned pregnancy or inability to have children," Hyde said. "But both sides at the end of the story and in hindsight will call themselves blessed."